Ina’s Death Anniversary

It was April 29 when Ina (my mother) passed away.  She died at the very ripe age of 95.  I remember her saying “sobra na naibayad sa akin, dapat magbigay na ako ng sukli.”  Meaning, she has been overpaid (with long life) and she needed to return a change. Whatever she meant, am still reflecting on it. 

Way back in 1990, when Ama (my father) died, she had been preparing for her demise since. She requested Raquel, her favorite granddaughter, to buy her her “funeral” attire.  Initially, the "Apo" refused.  But after countless reiterations, she gave in.  She bought her a quality gown made of jusi material.  She was able to use it in fave Apo’s wedding, after which it got so dark from being stocked-up for a long time.  I wonder if she was looking for it at the time she expected to wear it.   Incidentally, she went to her next life on the day so significant for her fave Apo. It was her birthday.

Anyways, I have spent almost whole of my life with Ina on my side.  From the time I began to pick my memory til the time she lost hers.  Ina is a strong willed woman, very unlike me. She would say what she needed to say, be it offensive or not. Like any other mother, she’s not perfect. But she’s indeed, a loving and caring mother,